When I became a mom, everything in my world shifted. My daughter is now 14 months old, and I can honestly say that motherhood has changed how I see everything from my work to my priorities to what “balance” actually looks like. Before my daughter was born, I would have called myself a workaholic. I’ve always wanted to be a mom and work in a space where I can help all kids thrive.
Today, as the director of partnerships at Child Creativity Lab, I work with TK-12 students across the county, helping them discover their creativity and confidence, especially those from low-income communities who might not otherwise have access to STEAM programs. It’s work I love deeply, and it demands a lot of time, energy and emotional investment.
At the end of the day, balance should look different for everyone. There’s no perfect formula, and it should change from week to week, sometimes even from hour to hour. As a working mom, what matters most is giving yourself grace and learning to define balance on your own terms.
Work-Life Balance Isn’t a Myth, It’s Just Tricky
Work-life balance isn’t about equal hours, it’s about being present wherever you are. I consider myself incredibly lucky to work for an organization that values flexibility for working parents. That flexibility also means that some nights I’m answering emails after my daughter has gone to bed or catching up early in the morning before she wakes up. When your workplace trusts you to manage your time and respects your role as a parent, you want to give that same respect and effort back.
When I’m with my daughter, I try to truly engage by putting away my phone and focusing on her. However, I don’t always get it right. I have moments where I disengage to check an email, only to look up and realize she’s tripped and now crying. Every working mom has and that’s why it’s necessary to have grace for yourself.